The Journal of Spirited Coaching by Kathy Wilson

Years ago a friend was telling me about her "good ole days", a time in her life when she used to go to bars to pick up guys. Although the result was usually a one night stand she kept doing it. Why? As she put it so succinctly, "Hey, it looked like love to me."

Another friend of mine used to talk about people who did things to get attention. It took me a while but finally I understood that to him, getting attention was the equivalent of receiving love.

A dear woman I knew many years ago went through boyfriends like they were dirty laundry. Always the reason she dumped them was that they started being physically violent to her. Finally after one particularly dangerous experience with a man, she began counseling at a Battered Women's Clinic. During a session she discovered that some of the actions her boyfriends exhibited at the beginning of their relationship weren't signs of love but were actually signs of control and possessiveness. When a man was constantly holding her hand or having his arm around her in public, it was not a sign of love but was instead a symbol of possession and ownership.

Identifying love can often be a mystifying and confusing ordeal. These are just a few examples of how love can be and often is misdiagnosed as something entirely different than genuine love. So how can you tell if what you're receiving is truly love?

Use your senses. Your mind can and does lie to you, but your body always knows the truth. To get you started, here are a few examples of the feelings associated with genuine love that your body experiences:

Make up your own list of what real, genuine love feels like to you. Then mentally review the relationships you have with others in your life.

For each relationship you have that's truly loving, give yourself a BIG HUG and HUGE CONGRATULATIONS!!

For each relationship you have that's less than loving you have three basic choices: stay in the dishonoring relationship OR end or diminish the relationship OR set personal boundaries to improve the relationship. For help with learning how to set effective personal boundaries, scroll down to my gift for you - the chapter on Personal Boundaries from my book, An Inner Journey: Living Your Life Purpose.

Personal boundaries are defined as "standards and limits that you set in regard to what you will and will not accept in other people's behavior toward you or in your presence." More simply stated, they're invisible lines of protection you set around yourself.

When you use personal boundaries, you empower yourself. No longer will you find yourself being a victim to what other people think you should do, believe, say, and more.

Personal boundaries are a vital part of raising your perceived value of yourself. People who have strong personal boundaries have great self respect and honor their worth.

Omnidimensional Oracles

It's Evolutionary!!

Symbols give structure, meaning, and purpose to the intelligent energy of which all in our world is composed. They bring abstract concepts into our physical world of the Third Dimension and make them substantial so that we can understand them. They bring the invisible energy of our thoughts out into our world and make them visible, tangible.

Of all the beings on our planet, in our dimension, only humans have symbols. These Omnidimensional Oracle symbols have been created in partnership with the Omnidimensional Beings and myself to communicate specific energies of belief systems by which we humans operate in our world.

The written messages that accompany each of the symbols describe their energy, their relationship to our Third Dimensional reality, and how they may be used for the higher purpose of raising frequential vibration of each person and subsequently, that of the collective of humanity. Each symbol holds the specific energy of the wisdom in the Oracle message.

Simple in form yet powerful in use, the 66 symbols in the book are an introduction to unlocking the secrets of our world. The information contained within the description of each symbol can take you from the very beginning stages of understanding Universal concepts to the greater utilization of them in our world. No matter what your level of experience and knowledge, these oracular symbols are of valuable aid in understanding how to facilitate improvement in the quality of your life. All will benefit from a consultation with these symbols.

Use their guidance every day to lead you on a life of your highest and best path. Simply open to a random page and read the wisdom offered to you.

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