Hooray! Hooray! The First of May!!
Years
ago one of our local country cafes was a real hot spot. At lunchtime
people would be lined up out the door and around the building, waiting
for a place to sit and enjoy lunch.
It
wasn't the food that brought them to the cafe. It was Betty Lou,
the cook. In truth, she wasn't very good at cooking, (some of her
food was at best edible). She had something else that brought people
in hoards to the cafe.
Betty
Lou was in her 50s when I first met her. She had wiry salt 'n' pepper
hair and stood just tall enough to work the grill. She described
her body as a "squat body", and it was an amazingly accurate
description. She was insanely funny, wildly nutty, and outrageously
hilarious. She had her own coat rack at the cafe that was filled
with things like a giant foam rubber cowboy hat, a feather boa,
and other weird and wonderful costume parts.
Whenever
the urge struck her, she'd throw her spatula down on the grill,
grab something off the rack, adorn herself with it, and pirouette
through the cafe singing some little ditty in her off-tune, gravelly
voice.
The
highlight of my day was eating lunch there. As I became a regular,
Betty Lou and I became friends. One day as I was enjoying my cheeseburger,
grease running down my arms and dripping off my elbows, she came
out from her grill, stopped in front of me, plunked her elbows on
the counter, pointed a finger at me and said, "You know what
this world needs?"
I
was almost afraid to ask, so just shook my head "no".
"A
pink chiffon prom formal," she said, and spun around to mosey
back to cooking something fairly edible on the grill.
Little
did she know that I had a chiffon prom formal. Well, it wasn't pink.
It was red. But it had lots of chiffon, including a couple of long
hunks hanging down from the bodice. I'd gotten it for a Halloween
costume and kept it around because you just never know when you
might need a red chiffon prom formal.
The
next day I brought it into the cafe for Betty Lou. She immediately
pulled it on over her food-covered apron and began dancing around
the cafe singing some off-tune melody.
What
brought her to mind recently was something she did every year on
the first of May. On that auspicious day she would plunk on one
of her costume pieces, grab her greasy spatula, and parade around
the cafe, waving the spatula and singing in her off-key voice, "Hooray!
Hooray! The first of May! Outdoor sex begins today!"
Of
course what made this little ditty even funnier was how very unsexy
she was in her costume-enhanced appearance.
The
moral to this story is that people were drawn to the cafe because
of her and her high frequential energy. She made people happy and
happiness is one of the highest frequencies of energy that we humans
can experience. It's right up there with the frequency of love,
which is the absolute highest frequency we can experience in our
world.
She
was living proof that raising one's energetic frequency needn't
be all about meditating until your mind stops working or contorting
your body into an unnatural position for hours or chanting affirmations
all day. Simply being silly and having fun does the job, too, and
it's easier and more simple.
Go
do something outrageously silly and fun. Not only will you feel
better and be happier, but you'll contribute to the happiness of
those around you, too.
Fun
and Love,
Kathy
ps.
I recently colored my white/grey hair lavender and have very much
enjoyed seeing the smiles on people's faces as they look at my outrageously
colored hair. I think Betty Lou would be proud of me
Just
for Fun!
I
haven't always been a life coach. I've had many jobs and types of
work that include (but aren't limited to) logging, clam digging,
bartending, pea testing, motel maid, owner/operator of a roofing
company, carpenter, Realtor, and salesperson of building supplies
to contractors.
The
weirdest and wackiest of all my jobs was when I was a Construction
Superintendent in charge of building a mini-mart/gas station. Everything
from the job site itself to the subcontractors had some oddball
aspect to it, often requiring me to come up with some creative solutions.
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