Lovingly Reparenting Yourself
All of us were raised by amatuers. By that I mean parents whose
only experience and knowledge of parenting was how they were raised.
Your parents' model of how to raise children was handed down through
generations of other amatuer parents.
Traditionally,
most of children's training has been based on fear. Threats
of frightening and painful outcomes for certain behaviors and actions,
punishment for not obeying the parent,
and even actual physical pain such as spanking, were the modus operandi
for most child rearing. Then as those children grew into adults
and became parents, they inflicted their children with the same
fear-based upbringing with which they had been raised. Thus the
never-changing beliefs, knowledge, habits, emotional responses,
values, and more were all handed down from generation to generation.
Never
were the methods questioned. "If it was good enough for me
it's good enough for you," was often heard as justification
by parents for using fear to control and train their children.
Then
things changed. It was predicted by Edgar Casey that the children
born after 1945 would be different from any people that had ever
lived on Earth. They would become the people who would change the
world. And so it was.
Those
children become the hippies who brought free love to our world,
who peacefully demonstrated against a war, resulting in the end
of that war. They changed the way couples in love shared their lives
together. They lived in groups such as shared houses and communes,
sharing living spaces, food, and work. They
questioned and rebelled against the systems they saw that weren't
working for the people.
It
was these people who broke the traditions of raising children by
which they, their parents, grandparents, and everyone in their family
history had been raised.
The
children of these new people who were raised in communes were exposed
to many different beliefs, habits, values, and more. This gave the
children a more unique upbringing in which they received a much
wider variety of things that are of immeasurable value to growing
children. The children now had the option of choosing what they
wanted to believe, which values they would hold most dear, and the
ability to discern their own truths.
We're
now two or three generations from that first batch of new children.
That first wave of new children have grown into adults, have raised
their own children, and those children are grown now and are raising
their families.
These
new parents are not about raising their children to be submissive,
well-behaved little people, as their grandparents were raised. These
new children are not threatened with some kind of punishment in
order to keep them quiet and polite. Instead, they're treated with
respect and a different, deeper level of caring. The new parents
are raising their children to be well-loved, respected, and happy.
These children learn to treat others as they are being treated.
The result is that they respond by being naturally well-behaved
out of respect for others.
If
you are one of these blessed children then you have much to be grateful
for. You were raised with love and not by fear. Most importantly,
you will then raise your children with the same love and respect
you were given as a child.
If
you weren't lucky enought to be one of the children who were raised
in such a loving environment, here's some good news:
Its
not too late to have a loving childhood.
You
can re-parent yourself. Here's one way to do that:
1.
Recall a memory from your childhood in which you were treated disrepectfully
and in a non-loving way. Perhaps fearful threats were used by
one or both of your parents in an attempt to force you to behave
in a manner to their liking. Maybe they were insensitive to your
needs and acted in an uncaring manner.
2.
Write down every detail about the event in a notebook or journal.
It's best to handwrite this and preferably in longhand. Doing so
connects you to the creative portion of your brain, opening up your
intuitive senses.
3.
When you're complete with writing the story of how the incident
occurred, on a new page begin to write about how it could have
transpired in a loving, kind, respective manner. Get as detailed
as you can with no limit on how wonderful, happy, and glorious an
experience it was for you. If you have difficulty with this, see
yourself as both the parent and the child in this incident.
4.
After you've completed writing about your new loving, respectful
experience, sit quietly, enjoying the happiness, delight, gratitude,
appreciation, and love you now feel. Muse upon how you responded
differently in the new version.
5.
What did you learn about yourself as a child in relation to the
adult? Now reverse that viewpoint and ask yourself what you
learned about the adult in relation to the child.
Once
you've gained the wisdom offered by this exercise you'll have a
much greater understanding about the higher purpose of the incident.
And when that happens, you'll begin to feel true and deep love for
your teacher/parent.
Love,
Kathy
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